Publisher's Weekly Review
Fans of pop star Collins will relish the friendly sound of his voice as he revisits his childhood and his early career as a child actor, his eventual ascent into music fame, and his most recent return from retirement. He opens up about his personal problems, including alcohol and drug abuse and failed marriages, providing context but not necessarily excusing his actions or shortcomings. He is the ideal narrator for his tale and keeps the flow of the narration highly conversational and intimate, so that listeners feel as if he is right there with him. His emotional projection perfectly aligns with the narrative as he recounts the highs and lows of his life: listeners can feel the happiness, sorrow, and anxiety in his tone and energy as he moves through his life story. A Crown Archetype hardcover. (Oct.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
New York Review of Books Review
IF YOU WENT to high school in the mid-1980s, chances are you remember buying a Phil Collins album, or dancing to "Against All Odds" in a high school gym, or watching Collins, the onetime Genesis drummer, perform on two continents for "Live Aid." One of the first CDs I ever bought was the Grammy-winning "No Jacket Required," and the first concert I ever saw was on the ensuing tour at Radio City Music Hall. I'm not ashamed to say it was great. Collins became a prisoner to his moment. It happened, a bit unfairly, to a lot of artists and politicians of the '80s (not to mention the Members Only jacket); the knowing '90s had no use for icons of a decade so cringingly synthetic and un-self-aware. If Collins wasn't already considered something of an embarrassment to his youthful fans by the time "No Jacket" turned 10, composing and performing songs for Disney's "Tarzan" soundtrack pretty much sealed the deal. Now, after multiple attempted comebacks and a couple of retirements, Collins re-emerges with a memoir: "Not Dead Yet." Clever, unblinking and unrelentingly painful, it has to be the best thing he has produced in many years. While not a terribly inventive lyricist, Collins turns out to be a gifted storyteller and a likable narrator of his own audiobook. He toggles deftly between the distant and recent pasts, imbuing the story with a kind of meandering informality while managing to keep it coherent. Like singing and drumming simultaneously, it's harder than he makes it look. He takes us through his childhood years in the working-class London suburb of Hounslow - as a theater school student, stage actor and itinerant drummer. Eventually he wanders into the countryside to audition for a trio of prep-school kids at one of their parents' estates, where Collins takes his first-ever dip in a private swimming pool. The pretentious youngsters call themselves Genesis. The weird kid with the pool is Peter Gabriel. The book really starts grooving, though, five years on, when Gabriel leaves the band and Collins replaces him. Collins is at great pains to make it clear he is a shy drummer who never imagined singing anything but backup vocals, though given his theater bent and that astoundingly resonant voice, it's hard to take this protest too seriously. Suddenly a commercial success, Genesis is out touring the world, which leads Collins's wife to stray, which leads to him sitting at home angrily and fiddling around with drum machines. Which in turn leads him to write a little song called "In the Air Tonight," which might be said to define the decade. (In a strange, lawyerly aside, Collins says he has no recollection of not sharing the "In the Air Tonight" demo with his Genesis bandmates. Of course he didn't. Would you?) After three well-received albums and the enormous commercial success of "No Jacket," Collins is in sky-high demand. He's producing Eric Clapton, singing with Sting, drumming (disastrously) with Led Zeppelin. He's acting on "Miami Vice" and plunging into movie roles. And always, always, he's touring. Living so furiously leaves him little time to sink deeply into songwriting. Instead, he releases a series of albums that might aptly be summed up in the same evocative way Collins describes the first Genesis record he ever heard. It was like a blancmange, he says; "you could put your finger in it and it would somehow reseal." He fritters away three marriages and mourns his disconnection from five children. There's a heartbreaking description of him sitting in a car in Surrey with his 6-year-old daughter, Lily, listening to the "Aladdin" soundtrack on a loop while they wait for their Italian restaurant to open, because apparently there's nowhere else he can think to take her. You want to scream at him: "Just stop, Phil! You're already the wealthiest drummer in the world who's not named Ringo! Go home and have a life!" Maybe if Collins had cooled out for a few years, given us some time to forget about "A Groovy Kind of Love," we might have cheered his return with a rush of nostalgia. But he can't. He yearns for normalcy, but he yearns more for validation. He idealizes domestic life, but he doesn't quite know what to do with it. When finally he quits touring around 2010, he descends into a near-fatal bout with alcoholism. His bones, brittle from years of cortisone injections to keep his unrested voice intact, are literally crumbling. He goes partly deaf and can barely lift a drumstick. "Music made me, but it also unmade me," Collins says. It's not all darkness. "Not Dead Yet" is laced with self-lacerating wit and celebrity cameos (Dustin Hoffman, Tony Bennett, Adele) rendered with unusual candor. In one particularly cruel moment, Noel Gallagher, the Oasis singer, sneers at the aging Collins's invitation to jam with him in an island bar, prompting Kate Moss to apologize. For whatever reason - copyrights, maybe? - what's missing from the audio version of "Not Dead Yet" is the music. You get to hear Collins seal-barking the famous drum hit from "In the Air Tonight," but that's it. Which is a shame, because if you go back and listen to his early stuff now, you realize that before he fully embraced the transition from drummer to showman, Phil Collins was pioneering a kind of musical alchemy - primal drum rhythms, jazzy horns, haunting chords - that should have long outlasted the '80s. "I really enjoy playing the drums," Collins remembers thinking when he first contemplated replacing Gabriel. "That's where I live." You have to wonder, by the time you've finished his memoir, if he wishes he'd never stepped out from behind. A pop star on his personal and professional lives: 'Music made me, but it also unmade me.' MATT BAI is the national political columnist for Yahoo News and the author of "All the Truth Is Out: The Week Politics Went Tabloid."
Library Journal Review
Anyone who has listened to an audiobook gets the same chill down their spine when they see the phrase "read by the author." However, in this case, the listener will be delighted by Collins's presentation, as he reads his memoir with skill, humor, and real emotion. The narration is performed with the dexterity of a seasoned actor. Telling his life story from his beginnings as a natural drummer to early run-ins with major musical influences, Collins delivers personal stories about being an absentee father and a less-than-perfect husband and also talks about his music. Some listeners might be put off by his "name dropping" of celebrities and musicians, but the reality is that Collins was a major musician who influenced plenty of singers, songwriters, and drummers. Avid music fans will appreciate the detailed discussions of certain recordings and who played what on which song. Moreover, Collins's openness about his depression after his retirement in 2007 will make fans root for his comeback tour in 2017. Anyone who can sing along to his songs should listen to this audiobook. -VERDICT Fans of Collins's music, whether from his solo work or with Genesis, will truly enjoy this wonderful story.-Jason L. Steagall, Gateway Technical Coll. Lib., Elkhorn, WI © Copyright 2017. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
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1 Not Drowning but Waving Or: my beginnings, my childhood and how my relationship with my dad was a bit tidal We think mums and dads know it all. But in fact they're making it up as they go along. Every day, busking it, winging it, putting on a brave--sometimes false--face. It's something I suspect throughout my childhood, yet it's only confirmed in adulthood, and only with a little help from the Other Side. One gray autumn evening in 1977, I go to see a medium. She lives in Victoria, central London, round the insalubrious back of Buckingham Palace, in a flat near the top of a tower block. It's no gypsy caravan, but I suppose it does mean she's nearer the heavens. I don't have a particular affinity for spirits--that will come much, much later, and be less an affinity than an addiction--but my wife, Andy, is somewhat that way inclined. My mum, too, is no stranger to the Ouija board. At our family home on London's suburban western edges, my mum, nana and auntie, along with my so-called uncles Reg and Len, enjoyed many a happy late-fifties and early-sixties evening summoning the dearly departed from beyond the veil. Better that than the meager monochrome offerings flickering from the newfangled television set. The reason for my and Andy's visit to this high-rise Madame Arcati: a naughty dog. Ben, our beautiful boxer, has a habit of dragging from under our bed a pile of electric blankets. We're holding on to these for our kids--Joely, five, and Simon, one--for when they stop wetting the bed and need a bit of extra warmth. It has not dawned on me that the folded electric blankets promise more than a toasty bed--bent filaments can break and catch fire. Maybe Ben knows this. Andy comes to the conclusion that there's a supernatural element to Ben's nightly ritual. He's probably not clairvoyant but there's clearly something we humans don't know. At this time I'm manically busy, touring with Genesis--we've released our album Wind & Wuthering and I have only recently taken over singing duties from Peter Gabriel. I am, accordingly, often an absent husband and father, so I feel perennially on the back foot when it comes to matters domestic and familial. I duly offer no opposition to this unorthodox course of action. So off to a medium we go. Into bustling Victoria, up in the tower-block elevator, a ring on the doorbell, small talk with the husband, who's watching Coronation Street. It couldn't be any less spiritual. Finally he pulls himself away from the TV and gives me a nod: "She'll see you now . . ." She's an ordinary-looking housewife, perched behind a small table. No sign of any other-worldly virtues. In fact she appears totally normal, in a matter-of-fact way. This completely throws and somewhat disappoints me, and my skepticism now comes with a topspin of confusion, and just a shade of grumpiness. As Andy's I Ching readings have informed her that it's the spirits on my side of the family that are the dog-botherers, I draw the short straw and enter the chamber of the supernatural. Through gritted teeth I tell the medium about Ben's nightly antics. She nods gravely, closes her eyes, waits for a meaningful length of time, then finally replies, "It's your dad." "Pardon?" "Yes, it's your dad and he wants you to have a few things: his watch, his wallet, the family cricket bat. Do you want me to ask his spirit to speak through me? Then you could hear his voice. But sometimes the spirits don't want to leave and that becomes a bit awkward." I splutter a no. Communication with my father wasn't at its best when he was alive. Talking to him now, nearly five years after his death at Christmas 1972, via a middle-aged housewife in a disconcertingly drab domestic setting in a tower block in the heart of London, would just be weird. "Well, he says to give your mum some flowers, and to tell her he's sorry." Of course, being a fairly rational twenty-six-year-old who likes things to be down-to-earth and regimented--I am a drummer, after all--I should have discounted this as mumbo-jumbo con-artistry. But I agree that our dog habitually dragging electric blankets from beneath our bed is behavior possibly not of the mortal plain. On top of that, Madame Arcati has said some things about my dad that she couldn't possibly have known, not least that stuff about the cricket bat. That cricket bat has been part of the Collins clan's meager sports equipment for as long as I can remember. Outside the family, no one would know about it. I wouldn't say I'm convinced, but I am intrigued. Andy and I depart the anteroom of the afterlife and re-enter the real world. Back on terra firma I tell her the news. She replies with a look understood on both sides of the veil: "I told you so." The next day I phone my mum and relate the previous evening's events. She is blithely spirited, and unsurprised by both the message and the medium. "I bet he wants to give me flowers," she says, half laughing, half harrumphing. This is when she tells me everything. My dad, Greville Philip Austin Collins, was not a faithful husband to my mum, June Winifred Collins (née Strange). Having been recruited at the age of nineteen, he was a lifelong employee, like his father before him, of the London Assurance Company in the City of London. "Grev" had used his quotidian, bowler-hatted, nine-to-five suburban commuter's existence to maintain a secret life with an office girlfriend. Dad was not a particularly obvious heart-throb or lady's man. He was a little tubby round the middle, and his RAF mustache topped off his patchy head of hair. I got all my looks from my mum, clearly. But it seems that behind that mild-mannered insurance-man exterior lurked something more Lothario-shaped. Mum tells me about a particular incident. Alma Cole was a lovely lady who worked with my mum in the toyshop she managed on behalf of a family friend. Alma was from the north of England and there was always a conspiratorial tone to whatever she said. She and my mum were close, and one day a slightly miffed Alma sniffed, "I saw you with Grev in the car on Saturday and you didn't wave back to me." "I wasn't in the car with him on Saturday!" The passenger, patently, was Dad's lady friend, being taken for a romantic spin in our black Austin A35. Now, nearly five years after Dad's passing, while I find it wonderful that my mum is confiding in me in this manner, hearing these revelations makes me simultaneously mad and sad. I now know that my parents' marriage didn't so much dissolve as fizzle out, partly due to my dad being, shall we say, distracted elsewhere. His infidelity was very much news to me. But why wouldn't it be? I was a very young boy back then and, to me, my parents seemed deliriously happy. Life at home had appeared normal and quite calm. Straightforward, simple. To my mind, Mum and Dad were happily in love for all their long married life. But I am very much the baby of the family, almost seven years younger than my sister, Carole, and nine years younger than my brother, Clive. Certain, grown-up aspects of home life would have gone straight over my head. Now, when I consider the facts before me this evening in 1977, I think I can divine an undercurrent of unrest in the house, something to which I was completely oblivious at the time. That said, perhaps I felt it in my water: I was a chronic bed-wetter to an embarrassingly old age. When I later relay this earth-shattering news to Clive, he gives it to me straight. All those sudden long walks I was taken on by my siblings? Those lazy, hazy strolls past the post-war prefab housing on Hounslow Heath with my brother and sister? Not the cheerfully nondescript norm of a simple late-fifties and early-sixties suburban English childhood. In fact I was being unwittingly complicit in the papering over of cracks. My father acting a little fast and loose with his marriage vows is something I still have trouble coming to terms with. His disregard for my mum's feelings is beyond me. And before anyone steps forward to state, "That's a bit rich coming from you, Collins," let the record show: I hear what you're saying. I am disappointed that I have been married three times. I'm even more disappointed that I have been divorced three times. I am considerably less bothered by the fact that these resulted in settlements with my ex-wives to the order of £42 million. Nor am I fussed that those sums were widely reported and are widely known. In this day and age, nothing is private anymore. The internet has seen to that. Additionally, while three divorces might seem to suggest a casual attitude toward the whole idea of marriage, this couldn't be further from the truth. I'm a romantic who believes, hopes, that the union of marriage is something to cherish and last. Yet certainly that trio of divorces demonstrates a failure to coexist happily and to understand my partners. It suggests a failure to become, and to stay, a family. It shows failure, full stop. Over the decades I've done my diligent best to make every aspect of my life, personal and professional, work like clockwork--although too often, I have to acknowledge that my "best" just hasn't been good enough. Still, I know what "normal" is--it's in my DNA; I grew up with it, or at least the semblance thereof, in the London suburbs--and that's what I strove for while trying to make a living playing music. I have endeavored to be honest with all my children about my personal history. It involves them. It affects them. They live with the consequences of my actions, inactions and reactions every day of their lives. I try to be as straight and forthright as it's possible to be. I will do the same throughout this story, even in the parts where I don't exactly come out smelling of roses. As a drummer I'm used to giving it some stick. I've had to become used to taking some stick, too. However, to return to my mum: her stoicism, strength and humor in the face of my dad's straying (to use that very English word) says a lot about a wartime generation who would go through thick and thin to maintain their marriage commitments. It's something we all could learn from, myself very much included. All that said: when I consider my childhood from the vantage point of my advanced age, perhaps close-to-the-bone emotional upset and turmoil seeped into my young self, without my even knowing it. I was born in Putney Maternity Hospital, southwest London, on January 30, 1951, a belated--and by all accounts surprise--third child to June and Grev Collins. Apparently Mum initially entered West Middlesex Hospital to have me, but they weren't very nice to her, so she crossed her legs, left and headed to Putney. I was the first "London" child, as both Carole and Clive had been born in Weston-super-Mare after the entire family had been relocated there by London Assurance prior to the Blitz. Carole was not best pleased by my birth. She'd wanted a girl. Clive, though, was over the moon--finally, a little brother to play football with, wrestle with and, when all that got a bit boring, to pin down and torture with his smelly socks. With Mum and Dad aged thirty-seven and forty-five respectively, my arrival made them, for the times, old parents. This didn't bother my mum in the slightest. She remained a generous and loving woman her entire life, without a bad word for anybody until the day she died on her birthday in 2011, aged ninety-eight. That said, she did once call a London policeman a "dickhead" when he chastised her for driving in a bus lane. Dad, born in 1907, came from then-fashionable Isleworth, a riverside neighborhood on London's western edges. His family home was big, dark, musty, quite imposing, not a little scary. Ditto his relatives. I have no recollection of my paternal grandfather, a time-served London Assurance man just like his son would become. But I do have vivid memories of Grandma. She was warm, embracing and very patient with me, but seemed stuck in the Victorian period, and as if to prove it was permanently clad in long black dresses. Maybe she was still mourning Prince Albert, too. She and I were very close. I spent a lot of time in her constantly damp below-stairs rooms, watching her paint watercolors of boats and the river, an enthusiasm I've inherited. Dad's sister, Auntie Joey, was a formidable woman, armed with a cigarette holder and a rough throaty voice, a little like the baddie in Disney's The Rescuers: "Dahling, doooo come in . . ." Her husband, Uncle Johnny, was also a case. He had a monocle and always wore heavy tweed suits, another Collins from the land that the twentieth century forgot. Family history has it that a couple of Dad's cousins had been incarcerated by the Japanese in the notorious Changi Prison in Singapore. Great store was put by them--they were war heroes, men who survived the pitiless Far East campaign. Another cousin was apparently the chap who first brought launderettes to England. In Dad's family's eyes, they were all, each of them, "somebody." Or, in other words, toffs. H. G. Wells was said to be a regular caller on the Collins household. Clearly Dad's family formed his attitudes, not to mention his working life--although after he died I discovered that he had tried to dodge conscription into London Assurance by running away to become a merchant seaman. But the ocean-going rebellion was short-lived and he was told to snap out of it, pull himself together and fall in line under the insurance-salesman yoke imposed by his own father. Conformity was the order of the day. With this in mind, it could be suggested that Dad was a little bit jealous of the freedom the sixties offered Clive, Carole and myself in our chosen fields: cartoonist, ice skater, musician. Call them proper jobs? Dad didn't. There's little proof that Grev Collins ever got used to the twentieth century. When North Sea gas came on stream and all the boilers in the U.K. were converted, Dad tried to bribe the Gas Board to leave us out of the conversions, convinced that somewhere there was a gasholder that would provide fuel just for the Collins family. 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